Hi all. I am a 2nd-year STEM-adjacent PhD student. I had a brutal meeting with my advisor today and I am trying to figure out how to salvage things.
He told me he's been unhappy with my progress for months, and said I need to think about (1) whether I actually want to do a PhD, and (2) whether I want to do one in his lab. He also said it feels like my workflow is "working the 24 hours before our meetings start"-- which, if I am being honest, isn't entirely wrong recently. The plan he laid out: keep working on my current project over the summer, target a conference submission in the fall, and reevaluate then.
I don't intend to take this lightly, but I am really worried this is sort of the beginning of a managed exit, i.e. no matter what I do, the writing is on the walls. For those who've recovered from conversations like this-- what changed?
Thanks in advance.