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How to get over feeling guilt for spending?
How to get over feeling guilt for spending?

I’m 33 yrs old and my wife and I just started saving money 3ish years ago. We paid off our debt and established and funded our emergency fund, and have begun our fund for building our forever home in a couple years.

I’ve been burnt out at work, I have bad arthritis in my neck and I’m a large guy that gets thrown on all the heavy lifting jobs (industrial electrician). I make decent money ($120k) and put $200 a week into our joint savings. Usually have $600 a month to spend on stuff but it always goes towards new tools for a house project or materials for a house project. It never ends.

I’ve never been on a vacation. I was going to take money out of my golfing fund ($75 a week to pay for my membership/balls/clubs/clothes throughout the year). To go to the US open for 2 days but once I saw the price tag I just felt like I didn’t deserve to spend that kind of money on myself for an experience. I can shake the guilt on material items, but even going on a 3 day golf trip for $1500 I for some reason feel guilty about it. Especially missing work and then in turn making it like a $2500 net loss.

How do people shake that? Again I’ve never taken time off work to go anywhere or do anything.


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