practical-junkie

I have heard from random aunties that why did I marry my husband if I was not going to give him kids disregarding the fact that both of us are childfree and him more than me. He has told his parents but they think it's a phase and he will change his mind like he is some kid. It's frustrating.

But my inlaws don't say anything about this to me anymore because the first time I was treated horribly there, I went no contact with them. For a year straight. Like legit no contact. No going to festivals, nothing. Then my dadaji died and they had things to say again and I went no contact again, this time for 10 months until they came and said sorry. Even now I am in very low contact. I only message my MIL and FIL once in a while and talk to them every Saturday or Sunday for 5 minutes while my husband is talking to them.

So the solution to all of this is to go no contact/very low contact. Don't talk to your MIL, don't visit her. If you want to go for your husband's cousin's wedding, book a hotel and everything and don't go to her house. Don't go to festivals at her place. And make sure there is a clear 50 - 50 for festivals going forward. Your husband can go 50% of the time to his house for festivals but he also gotta come to your family for the rest 50%. Stop doing anything for her and tell your husband she is not invited back.

And if she does realise and comes back and says sorry then maybe try to give it a chance but very cautiously. But make sure that she knows there are consequences for talking to you with such disrespect

Ohh I love this movie

I mean i have followed s6, s7 and now s8 in real time and people have always voted for their favorites especially favorite girl. People last year voted Huda into the finals, people got Amaya to win, people voted for Nic and Olandria even when they had been coupled up together for only a week.

People voted PPG on top every time after the Andrea vote out so Jana never was in the bottom again and people voted ppg + kendall to the point Rob who was loved by the production was eliminated in the 2nd last episode. And production was not showing us much Leah and Miguel and they came in 2nd.

So yes, I feel the vote has always been like this. Production definitely has favorites and they do everything in their power to save their favorites. This year the core 4 fans have been a very large chunk. And if the vote was otherwise, they might have lost some viewership from some hardcore loyal fans. And ultimately for the producers the top most priority is rating and popularity.