Sorry for being so blunt or phrasing it poorly, but i saw in another post how a mother doesn’t love her 14 year old child who had behavioral issues, and i was just wondering, can parents just put their kid up for adoption at any age without issue or penalty??
I’m curious of the rules around the world and per state too.
So my bf just had a seizure (6/22) and on Friday (6/19) I told him that I could smell it coming. He originally didn't believe me but this is like the fifth or sixth time this has happened. He doesn't understand how and honestly I dont either. I compare it to how I can smell people with diabetes in a way that no one else around me will be able to smell the same thing.
UPDATE: 9pm We were sent home. Things were looking good. 10:20pm He's awake but I smell it again. Strong but I say nothing because the ambulance won't come based off of a bunch. 10:38-10:40 He had a seizure.
UPDATE2: 11:44 I smelt it as I was replying to comments. 12 am He had another seizure. I got the nurses but they tried to tell me he wasn't as he stared and couldn't speak. They told me he's looking at them so he cant be having one. When he finally was able to relax his body again (he will tense up if he isn't full body shaking) he started speaking gibberish. Just random words strung together then quickly went to sleep. They told me not to get them because they can see his vitals from the nurse station. Just wanting to keep you all updated.
LAST UPDATE: The doctor said these are just stress seizures and if he has another one just keep him home.
Last Last UPDATE: 3:00am He had another one. Saliva foam at the mouth. Called 911. They said nothing can be done at any hospital so unless he falls or stops breathing, dont call. Sorry this turned into one of these long posts.
Last Last Last UPDATE: its currently 7:38 am. At 4 am He had another seizure. Popped his shoulder out and back in and bit his tongue. I called 311 and cried while asking what to do. They put me over to ems dispatch even though I pleaded with them not to since they haven't been taking me seriously. I sobbed to the ems dispatch that the hospital and ems people closest to me told me to just keep him home even though I had to go to work. They sent a different set of ems people (very nice ladies) and we went to a different hospital. They are finally listening and keeping him. They were shocked at what the other hospital and ems people told us. He is finally in good hands. Thank you all for keeping me company through this long night.
NEXT DAY UPDATE: He is home and has been seizure free since the last update. Thank you all for being on this journey with us!
i’m no stranger to traveling and even when staying at hotels i don’t leave my room a wreck but these expectations from airbnbs while i’m already paying a $150 cleaning fee is insane. recently i stayed in a cabin that was fairly expensive and had a large cleaning fee. when i walk in there’s a laminated paper that says
“CHECKOUT CLEANING LIST
—MUST BE COMPLETED PRIOR TO CHECKOUT TO AVOID EXTRA CLEANING FEES—
Take all dirty linen (blankets, sheets, towels) and put them in the washer and start it
Go to the closet in the hallway and grab a chlorine tablet and put it in the jacuzzi and start the cleaning cycle
TAKE OFF YOUR TRASH. No this does not mean bag up your trash and leave it on the porch. Collect ALL of your waste and take it with you. Do NOT leave it on the premises
Wash every dish that you have used. Dry them and put them back in the correct cabinet
Restock any of the shower amenities that you used with the extra ones in the cabinet
Sweep and vacuum (both are located inside the closet with chlorine tablets)
Make sure to return everything to its proper location. Remotes, pillows, etc.
DO NOT LEAVE ANY PERSONAL BELONGINGS BEHIND
REMINDER: Failure to complete this list will result in an extra cleaning fee”
check in was at 4pm and we had to be out by 10 am. that’s what pissed me off the most. i just did most of the cleaners work there should be no reason to have a 6 hour cleaning period. and if if the stipulation was no cleaning fee but i had to do all that i wouldn’t mind. but how am i paying a cleaning fee, cleaning, and being threatened to be charged MORE if i don’t clean to your standards?
but this is not the only issue i’ve had like this. this is just the worst. and my friends have also commented on this issue before and i’ve heard so many people complain about this. how are they allowed to charge a cleaning fee and then also expect you to clean it all? i know that it’s a private business and AirBnb can make their own rules but surely there’s some type of rule in place to prevent this. and also if there’s any airbnb hosts here who do this i’d love to hear why
